Saturday, November 30, 2013

Louise Hay, an Abused Child and One Time High-Fashion Model Healed her Life and Millions with Her!!


Louise Hay, despite a physically and sexually abused childhood, managed to become a High Fashion Model. However, when she was told she had cancer, she was ultimately led to the path of healing her childhood trauma, and the cancer without medical intervention. Louise Hay has influenced millions of people around the world how to heal themselves, and has been a great promoter of other healers as well.


Louise Hay, one of today's most inspirational women in the world, came by her wisdom the hard way. Most of her childhood was spent with either physical or sexual abuse by her step-father or the neighbor who raped her at the age of 15 Her self-esteem got lower and lower, and very little went right for her.   

At the age of 15 she moved out of home. She got pregnant at 16 and gave her baby girl up for adoption to a loving couple. She then went back home and took her mother out of the house and from under her step-father's abusiveness. She set  her mom up in an apartment and got her a job, at which point Louise and a friend left for Chicago.  

A few years later Louise left for New York where she incredulously became a high-fashion model. Despite working for the biggest designers, her self-esteem was still very poor. Instead of being proud of herself, she found more ways to criticize herself. As she says:"I refused to recognize my own beauty." She married a well-educated man  from England and had a.wonderful life They traveled around the world, met royalty, and led a life that many would only dream of.

However, fourteen years later when her husband left her for another woman, she coincidentally started on a new path that would change her and many others. She began attending meetings at the Church of Religious Science and soon found herself training in the ministerial  program. 
From all of the spiritual work, including Transcendental Meditation, she was inspired to put together the book Heal Your Body, which was originally a simple list of metaphysical causes for physical illnesses in the body. 

Unfortunately, or fortunately,  she was diagnosed with cancer in the Vaginal area. Having been battered and raped as a young girl, she was not surprised that cancer manifested in this area. Her belief was that cancer was a "dis-ease" of deep resentment that had been held for such a long time that  it literally ate away at her body. She knew that if she changed her mental pattern she could heal herself from the cancer.

Through her work at the Church, she came to realize that it was essential for her to love and approve of herself.  In her biography and the movie released about her life, she reveals how she went about letting go of the blame and found forgiveness. She also did many things, which at that time, were very unconventional. Some of these included; changing her nutrition, seeking psychiatric counseling and doing "self-love exercises". After some months of rigorously changing her mindset, the doctors found that she was entirely cancer free.

Later, Louise became involved in helping men with AIDS for which she received notoriety from Oprah and Phil Donahue. Shortly thereafter, the little book, You Can Heal Your Life landed on the New York Times best seller list. More than 50 million copies have been sold around the world and it has been translated into over 30 languages. 

In 1984, Louise Hay established Hay House Publishing Firm which has attracted many writers of inspirational, motivational and healing topics. Hay House now accounts for more than 130 authors. In 2004, Hay House organized a Convention of Speakers known for their Inspiration and Spirituality.  The convention is called "I Can Do It", and it moves across the country attracting more and more people all the time. Today, Hay House also has its own radio station and millions can tune in to hear these inspirational leaders as well as Louise. Needless to say, not only has Louise Hay personally helped many, but through her publishing company, Convention, and radio station, she has brought help to millions of people.





Wednesday, November 27, 2013

It's Always a Good Time to Say "Thank You"

"Thanks so much"

"If the only prayer you ever said your whole life was "Thank you, that would suffice" according to Eckart Toile. Why should this simple act mean so much? Expressing gratitude is good for you in so many ways: 

Gratitude reminds us to recognize good people in our life.  They range from loved ones to those that render a kindness to strangers. Treasuring goodness in every form brings more of it  in to our experience.

Gratitude turns bad things into good things.  Challenges keep life interesting, enhance judgement, and strengthen character.

Gratitude reminds us of what is important:  Being grateful to have a healthy family and friends, a home and food on the table puts smaller worries in perspective.

Gratitude reminds us to say thanks... it takes just a few minutes to say, "Thank you". Call, email, stop by to say thanks... it takes just a few minutes to express our reason for doing so.  People like being appreciated.  It creates a satisfying beam of mutual happiness that shines on.

A Couple Good Tips.

Create a morning gratitude session:
take a few minutes each morning to close your eyes, silence the "to-do" list and give thanks to whomever or whatever is cause for gratitude. 

Learn a Gratitude Prayer: 
Many songs and prayers, religious or not, serve to remind us to be grateful. Find one or write one yourself and post it in a highly visible spot.

Thanks to Leo Babauta for his words of wisdom!


HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

MAYBE COMFORTABLE SHOES WILL MAKE IT TO THE RUNWAY AFTER ALL!

LAST YEAR  CELINE PREMIERED A FUR LINED, AND JEWEL  ADORNED BIRKENSTOCK-LIKE SANDAL ON THE RUNWAY, DESIGNED BY PHOEBE PHILO. 2014 WILL SEE MORE OF THESE COMFORTABLE BUT HIGHLY STYLED SANDALS.   FINALLY!!


 Last season a flat sandal that looks like a Birkenstock but featured a mink lining, which sold for around €700 (£600) or about $1,000.00. It's not the sexiest-sounding shoe, but the design, by CĂ©line's Phoebe Philo, was already on course to become this season's watercooler shoe. So will it have a knock-on effect on the humbler classic Birkenstock?




This Spring, 2014, Givenchy  is premiering another line of comfortable sandals.
If Givenchy's Riccardo Tisci has anything to say about it, 2014 will be the year of the rubber-soled Teva hybrid.





MAYBE ONE DAY WOMEN WILL FINALLY HAVE STYLISH AND COMFORTABLE SHOES!











Maybe we ladies will finally be able to be Stylish and Comfortable!! 

Monday, November 25, 2013

HAVING TROUBLE RELATING TO THE STYLES OF TODAY? DON'T FEEL TOO BAD.



"STREET STYLE" IS BIG THIS SPRING. ANOTHER DESIGNER DOESN'T GET IT EITHER.


Looking at all the Styles for this Spring, is perplexing. Fifteen or even ten years ago., I would have been mortified to be seen in anything so "out there"and, not just "out there like in the 60's, but to me, it doesn't celebrate the female body, it feels somewhat insulting. Then I saw an article written by Courtney Love, not my style icon, but she had some valuable things to say.  She said that:"I have been in the Fashion Game for a lot of years, so I used to see trends start via the street and then go to designers. Designers copying street trends is fine, but it's not, to me, as strong as trends that start on the street."  Aha, an epiphany.  These "crazy" looking clothes are designer's attempts at copying Street Art. In my opinion it should be left in the street!!

Feeling very depressed that I can't relate, even the slightest bit, to this coming Spring season's clothing, I found something written by Jean Touitou.  jean founded the clothing line A.P.C. (Atelier de Production et de Creation) in 1987. His style was reactionary to the over-style money focused, gaudiness and excesses of the 1980's. His style, a timelessness chic, has not only persisted, but it is growing with new stores opening in Paris and New York. In the Magazine Style.com Print, on the very last page, I found the most  wonderful article written by this designer of women's clothing..

 THE WORD ON THE STREET by Jean Touiton


"The thing is, the street has no effect on me. It just tells me what not to do.  Rarely am I inspired by it nowadays, except by older people,or by workers. I mean, hipsters look terrible with their hipster signifiers, fake ghetto-nouveau dudes are pathetic, and with their hooker shoes and pricey bags make me sick. What else is left.

If I were in England, school kids could inspire me, because they've got it. They've got it.  They bring a kind of freedom, thanks to their uniforms. But most people are just prisoners of their own gimmick..."I am the punk character, your're the hippie one, oh, her comes a grungy fellow.."
There isn't  any invention-at least, I don't see any....

To find inspiration from the street today you have to look beyond the people that are simply imitating high fashion.  It is only there that you might find something." 





THESE ARE TWO OF A.P.C.'S DESIGNS FOR SPRING
 2014 READY TO WEAR COLLECTION..




PERSONALLY, I FIND THEM A BIT  BORING , BUT HIS FOLLOWING IS STRONG. HE HAS THREE STORES IN, LONDON, PARIS, AND NEW YORK, AND ONE OPENING IN CHICAGO.

Spring 2014 Fashions for Over Fifty, Just the Beginning

DOLCE AND GABANNA SPRING 2014 READY TO WEAR



 JENNIE PACKAM SPRING 2014






 EMPORIO ARMANI SPRING 2014







DONNA KAREN SPRING 2014


Saturday, November 23, 2013

Masters Models, the First Modeling Agency for Boomers and Seniors Opened in France in 2005,

THE EUROPEANS GET IT: SOCIETY IS IN NEED OF
  OLDER MODELS AND "ROLE MODELS". 


If you go to MastersModels.com/en/agency  you will find the following:

"MASTERS is the first french model agency to specialize in baby-boomers and seniors."

I It has been created in 2005 in response to two observations :

AN INCREASING DEMAND FROM ADVERTISERS AND COMMUNICATION AGENCIES
20 million people in France are currently aged over 50, making up the most significant and affluent generation with purchasing power estimated at 132 billion euros. In 1995, the peak consumption age was 49 ; today it's shifted to 54. Baby-boomers and seniors have considerable economic impact, which is increasing every year.

CHANGE IN THE WAY WE CONSIDER AGE
These days, 50 is not "old". You can still seduce, love, do sports, travel, enrich your culture and even start new things. Society has definitely stopped considering the baby-boomer or the senior as past it. As life expectancy is being significantly increased, at 50 you can reckon on living another 30 or 40 years, years which keep getting better thanks to the progress made in nutrition ans supplementary medicine.
Owner : Eric PERCEVAL"
Sandra Formatger Age 40-50




IF YOU GO ON TO THE WEBSITE, YOU WILL FIND PAGES AND PAGES OF MEN AND WOMEN WHO RANGE FROM FORTY (40)THROUGH PROBABLY NINETY(90).

THE SITE IS A "SIGHT FOR SORE EYES". FINALLY, A REFRESHING VIEW ON AGING. THIS IS A PART OF LIFE AND THE FRENCH ARE EMBRACING IT. 

Bonnie Miller
Age 70+

Anne France Bonasoli
Age 60-70

                     
                             


Thursday, November 21, 2013

Does Anyone Have a Costume Party to Go to this Spring? You have A Lot to Choose From

SPRING 2014, READY TO WEAR.  GET READY FOR SOME PRETTY "OUT THERE" STYLES!

Wow.  What a season this Spring will be "fashion-wise". In fact, it doesn't feel like Spring, but more like a Fellini Flick, or it's a big Costume Party that I wasn't invited to. I don't think I have ever seen such a varied amount of unusual clothing in all the years I have been drooling over "high fashion". I would have to say, it's pretty much all over the place, bold patterns, crazy materials, you name it. However, I did find a few common themes.

 One is that the skirts are the highest I have ever seen them.  What do they say: "When skirts are short the economy is really good."  Well, in that case, this Spring our economy will be do extremely well! 

Up until what age do you think it is appropriate to wear a skirt so short that you must be VERY careful where and how you sit down?  Definitely not past 35 right? Maybe 30?  Okay, if I am being old-fashioned then 40?  Let's say it's 30, 35 or 40...how many  women do you know who can afford to blow a huge amount of cash on an outfit this limited?  Or maybe she will wear it all the time, what do I know?
Dolce and Gabanna
Yves Saint Laurent
Prada
The scenery that you see  to the left is also big this Spring. It's like what we wore in the 70's. Didn't you have one of those synthetic shiny shirts with the scene of a forest, or a beach, or a person's face on it? I think we wore those into the Disco era, didn't we? Anyway, Prada takes it to new dimensions this 
Gucci
Spring as  you can see   below to the left.    




There are also a lot of See-Through styles. In my opinion, way too much nipple, but then again, that is why this blog is titled Fashion Over Fifty and not Thirty or Forty....  Looking at the YSL outfit above, I feel like I could be in a Strip Club.                                              
   


                                                             


Another common theme this Spring are geometric and asymmetrical shapes and hemlines cut on the bias. However, not only are things cut asymmetrically, but there are lots of layers in the same or different fabrics. too, too busy.  Honestly, even if I could get away with these clothes, I would rather wear jeans.
Christian Dior


Fendi





















YSL
Bottega Veneta


                                                                                                                        


Another common denominator among this crazy array of fashions is the fact that I was hard-pressed to find even one style within many of the collections that I would even seriously consider wearing no matter what age. 

As I promised, there are a few beautiful things out there for the Over Fifty, and true to my word I will post these tomorrow.




There are Lots of Apps for the Over Fifty to Help Navigate an Easier Life.

WHAT APP CAN HELP CHANGE YOUR LIFE?

Communication Apps – Skype

Many of us have family and friends spread all over the world. If this sounds like you, give Skype a shot! It’s an amazing free online service that you can use to talk with people via computer or Smartphone or tablet PC, from anywhere in the world. Skype uses audio (voice) chat, webcam chat, or text chat so you can easily exchange photos and documents (if you’re using it for work) or just chat with your far-flung family members.

Personal Safety Apps – 5 Star Urgent Response

If you live alone  or have aging parents who are still living in their own homes. If you or a loved one is concerned about being able to quickly get help in case of an emergency, accident or illness, there are apps available that can quickly connect you to emergency help and communicate your medical information to first responders. iPhone users can check out the 5Star Urgent Response Personal Safety & Emergency Help App (with GPS Locator). Or go to your app marketplace and search for “personal safety apps.”

Fitness Apps for Women - Endomondo, MyFitnessPal and Others

There are many apps that make it easier to stay in good shape, whether that means counting calories, tracking your latest running times, or keeping track of how far you've ridden your bike. Some new examples are: Endomondo, MyFitnessPal, RunKeeper, MapMyFitness, etc. Many fitness apps make it possible to share your progress via social media (for example, you can post your latest run times to Facebook to show people how well you’re doing – and including this social component can help motivate you to stick with your workout routine). This article in PC World has some great ideas for Fitness Apps – check it out and give some thought to which apps are right for you.

Personal Organizer Apps – Awesome Note

If you’re looking to simplify your life, “there’s an app for that.” There are many apps that give you powerful tools for writing better to-do lists, taking notes, and remembering how/where/when you need to be at certain places or get certain things done. One of the top-rated personal organizer apps is Awesome Note, which helps create well-organized notes and to-do lists combined – in a way that works with Google.

Cooking Apps – Dinner Spinner

I hesitated to include this on the list, because so often, “apps for women” are assumed to only be about shopping and cooking. And cooking is not just a woman’s responsibility! But after all, we do need to eat – and there are many great apps out there to help us cook better meals and have more organized shopping trips. One of the best-rated cooking apps is Dinner Spinner, which helps you search for recipes online based on the ingredients that you already have in your kitchen. Save time, avoid wasting food, do more efficient grocery shopping, and enjoy healthier, more delicious meals all with this one app.

Shopping Apps – Amazon Price Check and Others

OK, fine – we’ll include a few shopping apps too. But not because “all women love to shop and that’s all that we like to do,” but because there are wonderful tools online to help save money and make your shopping trips more efficient, better organized and better informed. One of the most popular shopping apps is Amazon Price Check (available for iPhone and Android). If you don’t have this on your phone yet, you should really check it out. Amazon Price Check lets you easily compare prices of almost any item you find at a retail store with the price of the item on Amazon. You can often find the best deals this way. Here is a great article on other top shopping apps that can help you save money on everything from clothes to restaurant meals.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Laurie Schur not only Shares and Directs the Lives of Amazing Women Over Eighty in her Movie, but she Changes the World a Little Bit.

Laurie Schur Reinvents her Career in her 50's as a Documentary Film Maker. Her First Project,The Beauty of Aging, has helped shift our beliefs About People and Aging.


Women in their eighties are one of the fastest growing populations in America. Laurie Schur 

wanted a role model who she could admire since, after all, one day we will all be there, if we are lucky. After spending 25 years as a psychotherapist, Laurie took a documentary film class at UCLA extension. In her 50's, Laurie began a new career doing documentaries and her first one: "The Beauty of Aging"

After doing her research Laurie found these amazing women who were not slowly slipping away, but rather, were living vibrant lives. These women were staying actively engaged in living despite life's challenges. Laurie attributes their ability to accomplish this to : "Attitude, attitude, attitude. Creativity, relationships with people of all ages, and a variety of interests were key factors for these women"..."while genetics is a factor, lifestyle, attitude and active engagement in life are equally important. "

The first part of the project is a 35 minute short Greedy for Life. In this short, we are introduced to two wonderful women who tell their stories in a way that leaves all of us feeling good. It is a lesson to all of us that embracing life with such enthusiasm is contagious and that if we are lucky enough, maybe we can do the same thing. Another one of their secrets according to Laurie, "They allow for feelings without getting stuck in the upsets of life."  I think that's good advice no matter what age.

GREEDY FOR LIFE is an official selection for the Gero-Ed film Festival and is used as an educational and inspirational film on aging at universities and aging communities. Not bad for a second career, and think of all the good she has done for the world.  Great job Laurie.

The Beauty of Aging has its own Facebook page.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

"Silver Sisters", an Organization for Women of All Ages who Embrace Their Natural Gray. Their Fourth Annual Meeting Held in Chicago in October, 2013


The Pioneer's of Embracing  the Beauty of Gray and Silver Hair: The Silver Sisters.  These  women are on the Frontier of Helping all Women Embrace who They Are with Pride, Including their Age.



On October 25 and 26, 2013, the Silver Sisters held their 4th annual meeting in Chicago. These lovely women convene in all ages with one thing in common; they embrace their natural gray and silver hair.  The founder, Diana Lewis Jewell, is also an author of the book Going Gray, Looking Great!
The event is officially sponsored by Jhirmack, creators of hair products for natural silver hair. In my opinion, Jhirmack is to be given an award for creating a product and marketing it to a huge demographic all over the world.  I have very curly hair.  In the 1980's I went in to hair salons asking for products for curly hair and people looked at me like I was crazy. I was lucky to find one.  It was usually the straightener which contained LYE, yes LYE, which burned the heck out of my scalp.  The only thing I was supposed to do was straighten it so I could be like everybody else.
Finally, in the early '80's  I decided I would embrace my curls.  A lot of people looked at me like I was weird.  Then, all of a sudden, somewhere in the 90's, it started to become more popular. At that time, I could find about 3 or 4 products.  Soon, people were complementing me and telling me how lucky I was to have curly hair. Sure, I thought, where were you 15 years earlier when I couldn't find any products and it was weird, and NOT COOL? Today there are so many products, I don't know where to start!!!
I hope you see where I am going with this!! Jhirmack is finally helping women to embrace who they are and to optimize their natural beauty, which I was not encouraged to do until I was in my 30's!!  I doubt that was really their motive (yes, I am cynical) but at least there was somebody at the Top with some brains. Yes, 10,000 people reach the age of 65 each day. The Boomers are the largest demographic and have the greatest amount of financial capability to influence the market; however, you would never know it looking at Fashion Magazines!! Wouldn't it be nice if one of the Fashion Magazines used models with Gray hair?  
There are many sociological studies(see my earlier blogs) about our society's obsession with youth and the alienation women start to feel as they are no longer considered "feminine".  It is about time that this movement takes hold and begins to have momentum. I believe that the Silver Sisters should be thanked so gratefully by all women, whether they have Gray hair or not. I hate to break it to you, but even if all women don't get Gray, they do get old!!!
Last, kudos also to the stylists that participated. George Bruno who demonstrated hair styles for silver hair; Marcus Geeter who offered quick and easy makeup tricks; and a fashion show styled by the acclaimed stylist Arden Reece and featured clothing from Neiman Marcus.  I grew up in Chicago and I am so sorry that I missed this event!!  This is the start of a bigger movement ladies. I encourage you to do as I did with my curly hair, embrace whoever you are with love!! Eventually other people will too. 










Monday, November 18, 2013

"Harper's Bazaar" holds Annual Estee Lauder "Fabulous At Every" Age contest. Does this Feel Genuine to You?

THE WINNERS OF HARPER BAZAAR'S FABULOUS AT EVERY AGE CONTEST





Who knew that Harper's Bazaar had an Annual contest  where they painstakingly chose a model from the  decades of 20, 30, 40, 50, and 60.  What happened to 70 and 80?  Just wait until they reach that age, if they are lucky, and see how it feels to be ostracized because of age!! The event this year took place in London and was apparently very inspiring and regaled the five honorees whose abilities and personalities were as unique as their age groups. This article is truly grateful to these women for all of their efforts and celebrates their beauty inside and out. What follows is no reflection on them, it is only a critique of Bazaar magazine.

The Magazine's beauty director, Alexandra Parnass calls  the competition her favorite franchise. Do I believe that? Of course not.  When do we ever see photos of the women in their 40's, 50's, or 60's in their magazine other than this one Edition? Not only do we not see THEM in other editions, we barely see ANYONE over 40, and to find anyone over FIFTY ( ARGH!), other than Madonna (who has had more work done than the 405 freeway in Los Angeles)is almost impossible.  This contest is so hypocritical, I can't stand it!!

Parnass commented: The women are chosen not just for their achievements, but for their attitudes. "They're humans, you know? None of them are absolutely perfect head-to-toe, as none of us are. (Excuse me while I go throw up.) It really strikes you when talking to any of these women that they are truly not bothered by the little things in life."  Doesn't anyone else have to laugh at the hypocracy?  When do they ever show real women who aren't photo-shopped perfectly? If none of us are perfect, then why don't they have more "real life" models in the magazine other than just this one time every year?  Who does she think she is kidding?

Glenda Bailey, the Editor in Chief, said that the key to staying young is "that good spirit and energy and excitement-the curiosity of life."  Then why aren't there articles from leading experts in the field about this all the time?  Instead, why does she and the other editors choose women only in their teens, 20's, and maybe 30's as their models.  Why not show some real " humans", as Parnass puts it, who are excited and have a curiosity for life? Why not show some women who are actually role models, instead of putting people like Miley Cyrus on the covers?  

Bailey, touted as a superwoman juggling: motherhood, career advancement, friendship,
marriage and staying healthy says that :there are so many heads that come with the job of being a woman today.  At the same time, "it's just about trying to get through it with a sense of humor, a sense of style and a sense of fun."  Whatever she is taking, I want some of that.

Today, there are increasingly more studies about how women over forty, not even fifty, feel a sense of isolation and a feeling of being exiled from society and even from their femininity when reaching a certain age.  Our society is so youth-oriented, one would have to live in a cave not feel this. As a point, I will be posting on my home page some of the fashions that they have recommend for the different decades and how inappropriate they are.  No one at Bazaar even 
bothers to think about women over Fifty. 

Do I sound angry? Well, yes I am.  This entire contest is a Farce because these women are never seen again.  No one really really "human" with flaws is allowed in their magazine. It's not the hypocrisy that makes me angry, it's that I believe that there is some responsibility to society not to lie.  Not to lie that it's a "sense of humor" that keeps you young.  This magazine and others like it pander to the fears of women about getting older!!! The media has so much power to do good and yet, I believe it is creating more dis-ease and dis-comfort for women that are getting older. 

What I say is, why not use models that are over 50, or 60, or even 70? Have you seen my Pinterest pages?  There are so many exquisite women in these age brackets    Have you seen Carmen D'orofice at 83?  I say to the editors Parnass and Bailey, look inside yourselves.  If you have daughters, or even if you don't, do really want to be contributing to more isolation and discrimination in this world?  You are messengers of society, is this the message you really want to convey?



Sunday, November 17, 2013

London's Royal College of Art Convenes Designers, Sociologists and Industry to Discuss Fashion and Ageing

London is really A-dressing the "Art" of Dressing and Growing Older  







On October 22, 2013,  the Royal College of Art had a seminar about clothes and growing older. There are a few great Bloggers who really follow this growing important societal issue.  More importantly this issue has become one that researchers and academic professors have been researching. Among those at the one day seminar were: Julia Twigg,  Jenny Hockey, and Joanne Bichard  (separate blogs will be written about each each one of these speakers.)

Julia Twigg:
Culturally, there has been a persistent age ordering of clothes, especially in women. Largely, it is about what NOT to wear. Society has historically dictated these norms, such as:  higher necks, longer skirts, looser clothes, darker colors, and anything attempting to claim sexual attention.The women in Julia Twigg's studies generally did accustom themselves to the age ordering and in doing so suffered from a sense of cultural exile of femininity.

However, in recent history this age ordering has lessened and in Academia is it called the Reconstitution of Ageing Thesis." The hope is that through more positive role models such as Mary Berry/Helen Miriam. That brighter colors, strong accent colors will be introduced. A focus on cheap fast fashion is also helping to democratise fashion, with easily affordable clothing creating a faster shopping cycle. This could go two ways either positively or negatively as advertising is still aimed at idealizing younger/thinner/richer individuals."

Jenny Hockey:
Ms. Hockey has studied footwear, identity and transition.  According to her research, footwear shows something about chronological age and the linearity of a person's life course. The life course can be interrupted, disrupted, or subverted, but generally,1) people may attempt to defer their ageing by avoiding comfortable shoes because they make you look older; and/ or 2) people can be released from holding on to the past by embracing the freedom to wear comfortable shoes; and/or 3) people may also draw resource from the past and embrace vintage shoes. Generally,though, everyone is aware of the age-meaning of their shoes!

Joanne Bichard:
Ms. Bichard, one of the organizers of the event and a researcher is looking to produce a book out of the symposium and help build a body of research that can feed into design research and new approaches. Today, women are still judged by how they dress for their age, yet, fashion still revolves around youth.  As a result, women often end up buying clothes they never wear. Most importantly, and as I have been saying since DAY ONE, "It's not sustainable for the environment or self-esteem."  

Let's hope that with these bright researchers and sociologists that the disconnect between age, class, and fashion can be ameliorated to make for much healthier societies. 









Saturday, November 16, 2013

The Famous British Blogger, Alyson, Walsh, Has Great Advice Not only for the Over Forty, but for Every Woman through the Age of 100!!

Alyson Walsh, British Blogger of  "That's Not  My Age"








Alyson Walsh has been blogging about fashion for the over forty for at least six years. The name for the blog reflects that great British "humour";  when you become a certain age, denial sets in along with wrinkles and a handful (slew?) of other things. Her goal is to provide an alternative to women over forty who aren't permanently Botoxed or embarrassingly trying to look younger than their own children. 

She has received a tremendous amount of press, including being a presenter at the recent Mirror Mirror(see my Blog of November 10, '13) conference held at the London College of Fashion in October. Easy Living Magazine described her blog as a snappy one "that celebrates the creed, style begins at 40, :the spirit of which we like very much.  Part amateur Sartorialist-esque, street photography, part cultural commentator and part gossipy fashionist there is much here for anyone interested in fashion-of any age.  We love it."   

In 2012, she was mentioned in Harper's Bazaar alongside blogs like Advanced Style (Ari Seth Cohen) and the The Women's Room, which champion the fact that older women matter. She argues convincingly that men and women" who grow up with an interest in fashion and style don't suddenly bulk buy eltasticated- waist slacks the moment they turn 40. Or have any use for the latest Rihanna-inspired crop top. To paraphrase Chanel, there's nothing more aging than trying to desperately to look young."

What I say, 40 ain't nothin'!!!  Even at fifty some women peak. In the United States, I really see that women in their forties who take care of themselves, still look young.  It's when you start to hit the mid to late fifties that no matter how well you took care of yourself, the past fifty-something years, the changes start coming!!  I want to see what Alyson says when she gets about a decade older. 
Anyway, Alyson's rules for fashion when you hit forty are as follows:

"Not so long ago, she gave a talk on Ageless Style and this is how she summed up what grown-up women really want from fashion:

1. We want to look good for our age. 
2. We are more discerning now than when we were younger. So we invest wisely in clothes that are modern, chic and made to last.
3. We don't want to look like we're trying too hard to keep up. Desperation is never a good look.
4. Women want to see clothes (and other products) on models that reflect their age and size and race."


I TOTALLY AGREE  and this goes for every age, whether 40 or 100!!